why oh why oh why oh why
Now why is it that the frequency of comments on the blog has dwindled?
Not that im a comment hungry whore or will shut this blog down in a flood of tears because no one like me nemore, but still, one wonders. The Counter thingie is going great guns... the comments not so much. I wonder if its because people come here accidentally and then oh crap wrong link, or maybe i write with such poignance that i leave them speechless or maybe what i have to say merits niether sympathy nor empathy and is this ignored.
Hmm, Watson, enlighten me.
Not that im a comment hungry whore or will shut this blog down in a flood of tears because no one like me nemore, but still, one wonders. The Counter thingie is going great guns... the comments not so much. I wonder if its because people come here accidentally and then oh crap wrong link, or maybe i write with such poignance that i leave them speechless or maybe what i have to say merits niether sympathy nor empathy and is this ignored.
Hmm, Watson, enlighten me.
Comments
:P
heh.
also, less sex drugs tits anger pain suicide murder hell heaven blood and darkness.
such things make a difference. do you care?
saala nautanki kahin ka...and while we are at it ..am still waiting to hear about the masters in psychology babe...
and oh ...*bitchily..what happened to all those guys who want to appropriate you on to their own network ?? no comments from them ...
:-P
:))
and poured into me a speechless word
that was the seed of wisdom."
that self same speechless word could also be named the missing comment... :)
reading your posts remind me of a phase in my life that i'd like to forget... not forget (-forget- makes everything seem so meaningless).. but i'd rather not think abt that time anymore and let it consume me!
maybe that's a reason i try not to read your blog so often.
your posts are so 'bang on target' each time... that it hurts!
(proof-read!)
other times, i have to strangle the part of me that wants to write all the cliches like 'it'll be okay', 'this too shall pass' etc. and so i just keep my mouth shut.
but i ALWAYS click eagerly on your link, hoping you've updated and love reading whatever you write. and i think that's what counts.
(damn, i think that was a bit too nice - sorry, now i HAVE to throw in a 'fuck you bastard', just to retain my sense of self).
Its just that its nice to read all kinds of people share thier own experiences because they can relate to what i choose to share. Even the haters are a joy because it adds to my own perspective about certain things.
S jee, thankyou for spring me the flattery and the cliches not at all what i look for or cherish, but when you come here with a view supplemnting mine or in opposition to it, that's what makes the whole blogging thing worthwhile. This is not to say that you should now feel compelles to state your view everytime you visit, no not at all. I just wondered out loud if i wasn't coming of as appreciative of the comments ppl leave because i wasn't responding to them.
I hope you all know i love you guys like i love the freinds who are physically around. But we or at least I don't really share the thoughts that get posted here with them so sometimes emotional appeasement is to be found here only. This blog is important to me because I have come across so many awesome people because of this, or atleast the awesome, compassionate, honest side of so many people. Its a faith restores, this blog.
Majaz! MAJAAAAAAAAAAAAAZ!!! you're back!!
I swear, if i didn't know ho wmuch you hate me, i'd hug you abhi. I missed you yaar... oops... no yaar. Nae but seriously, i missed you dissing me on my own blog. I swear i did. Therefore, whatever it took to enrage you enough again to condascned to communicate with me, is worth it. Even extreme stupidity.
I'm capable of much worse waisay, as you pointed out, so far. I can promise you even more disappointment in the face of your expectations from me in the future.
For now though, welcome back. Is good to feel the burrrrn again.
Take your words back take your words back take your words back.
You aint hugging noone :@
And after reading that sweet yet arrogant paragraph that you have so kindly 'beknighted' me with, I have little doubt that you don't.
And if there's more to my disappointments and your "burrrrns" (Hail Michael Kelso for inventing that the way it is meant to be), then you can bet your acerbic crap that I won't spare you.
And steer clear of the hugs. He's six foot two and can break noses faster than you can se 'dope'. ;)
OHhohohohohohoh!!!!
What is this that i have unwittingly uncovered here???
Majaz has a heart after all!!! and it beats for someone ishpeshul!!!!
wah ray our very own blogger love story.
Okay okay, no hugs baba, waisay you know there is such a thing as a platonic hug but just for the threat by your umm whatever there and your abject refusal to come running into my arms i shall keep you devoid of the power of my pyar wali jhapee.
23, yur 6 2 huh? Okay more respect your way from now on man.
And just for the record, i don't hate you, no ma'am. Neither one of you, in fact, And it is not for the fear of the obnoxious nicked 6+ footr okay. In fact, i do believe, that i know a lot more about you than you think. Or maybe i'm confusing you with someone else which really works in your favor. 6+ footed dude, i have no idea or assumptions about who you are, which really works in your favor too :D
Much love to ya both.
And blessings.
Keep it real folks.
But that's sweet of you, sirrah. If you keep being this highly un-phitaymaun like, maybe we'll invite you to the wedding. :P
Point and blessings taken. JazakAllah.
I am still wondering, what is that 'bigger aim of spiritual fulfilment,'? :S:S
Somebody please enlighten me.
23:What i meant to imply was that love seeks to gain more from a relationship than just kids and family and free, halal sex. A lot of people i know have gotten married because they were desperate to finally get some. This stemming from no sexually active relationships which did not last. While they did last though, marriage was to even them about a lot more. Like building a future together, like picking out curtains for thier bedroom, like fighting over who gets to be in charge of the budget... you know stuff that exists between lovers.
Stuff that makes all the cliches come true. Stuff that stems from you being so much an extension of someone else that you begin to feel like they were the missing piece of the puzzle, the piece that fills teh void you never even knew existed before them. I think that feeling of completeness without any hidden agendas is as spiritual as anything can get in this highly matereialistic world. I would want a marriage that aspires to achieve the same. That's what it was aboutm, partially an allusion to the indian filmy theory that a soul is split in two at birth and only upon finding the other half as it roams the world can peace and harmony be found. I think although that tripe is absurd but it does make love easy to unserstand for the layman fantasy freak teenager. Love is by far the most fulfilling expereince i've ever expereinced, in all its moods and flavors, both emotionally and spiritually. So much so that i can safely say the physical aspect of it is not only unimportant, its almost regrettable.
Hope that explains it.
Majaz: Un-phitaymaun like? Well, i hope you realize now that there are more than one dimension to everyone. I'm generally a happy camper.
A;so. will there be cake at the wedding? Will you introduce me to eligible single ladies?
Weddings are, i have noticed, the best venues to arrange more weddings. They're like a self replicating organism!
Good on you for being a happy camper. Believe me I never would have guessed. *really*
And it's going to be a highly traditional wedding and there WILL be salad (salad bars are the best at weddings, so good that they're gone within the first few minutes) and yeah, the bacteria-like quality of weddings does somehow appeal to the ecological-mindedness of nature. So you'll be asked to find an equally sad-looking blogger with a happy looking display picture.
As for the hate, always there for you, bro.
*grand bow*
The post for the recurring critic isn't open for newbies.
hahahha....Hint! Hint!
;)
I dont have a clue what are you talking about :)
Dont you see iam incapable of digesting such 'deep' thoughts. I am too dumb for that. :D
I am going to memorize the whole para to tell people what spiritual fulfilment is :)